Im always changing my mind...

As some of you ladies know of have guessed already lol

I'm Single.

But i can never really make my mind up when i enjoy being single and when i want more...Currently i enjoy the single life, but there are nights i would like that someone to snuggle up to etc you know...

Being single does have a draw back and thats the sex...but i guess if i become a man whore then that wouldnt be an issue haha...but not my cuppa tea.

Im also bloody fussy when it comes to picking a girlfriend too thats one of my major drawbacks ha! boo hoo...
i just dont know what i want sometimes...i guess i would love a relationship with hot steam sex, and the chance to snuggle but come and go as a please... lol sounds harsh but...meh

lol not harsh, just honest!

Think as long as you are honest with the girls you are with, then there no harm in it. You sound to me like what you are after is just an FB sort of thing. Ya know, hot steamy sex, a couple of cuddles but no ties and no demands. Thats ok to a point, but it does become pretty meaningless after a while, so am not really a fan of the whole 'FB' situation, but whatever works for ya!!

To be honest though, if the right girl comes along, you will naturally want more and will naturally commit without even thinking about it. Until you do, then its simply not right IMO. I think the worst thing you can is to think about it too much, coz then you start to make it obvious, and women can smell desperation at 10 paces!! Just bear that in mind

miaow wrote:lol not harsh, just honest!

. You sound to me like what you are after is just an FB sort of thing. Ya know, hot steamy sex, a couple of cuddles but no ties and no demands.

You hinting haha!
yeah i agree with you Cat...its just finding someone who is willing...Not many ladies are up for such fun these days because they get consider a slag

Hot Fix wrote:

miaow wrote:lol not harsh, just honest!

. You sound to me like what you are after is just an FB sort of thing. Ya know, hot steamy sex, a couple of cuddles but no ties and no demands.

You hinting haha!
yeah i agree with you Cat...its just finding someone who is willing...Not many ladies are up for such fun these days because they get consider a slag

ha ha ha so not

To be honest girls your age wont go for something like that, coz girls in the early 20s are usually only looking for long term relationships (they are still very idealistic at that age, bless them) no offence to anyone but am a cynical lass these days!! Anyways, if thats what you are defo looking for, then in my experience you would find it easier to find an older woman who would be up for that kind of relationship. Depends what your opinions are, so far as 'the older woman' is concerned but thats just the way it is. By the time women hit their 30s and 40s and they are well past the idealistic phase, are in the prime of their sexuality and are usually out for fun and games with no strings attached, usually coz they have enough on their plates with homelife, careers, kids etc.

Its just looking at it from another angle. So could you see yourself with a 'Mrs Robinson'???

an older women does appeal lol
but they have to be hot. theres a lot of hot ladies my age. But when i look there isnt many hot 'older' ones no offence to any hot 30+
But in all seriousness a older women doesnt phase me, lol

lol see it just depends on what you define as 'hot', one mans meat and all that. I know lots of women in their 30s and 40s who would be classed as 'hot' by a lot of men more so than women in their 20s. Each to their own though, everyone's taste differs but hey if you are on MH you must be one of them gym blokes, what about ladies down there? They must be all fit and toned (yes I dared to use the term toned!) down there???

miaow wrote:lol see it just depends on what you define as 'hot', one mans meat and all that. I know lots of women in their 30s and 40s who would be classed as 'hot' by a lot of men more so than women in their 20s. Each to their own though, everyone's taste differs but hey if you are on MH you must be one of them gym blokes, what about ladies down there? They must be all fit and toned (yes I dared to use the term toned!) down there???

HAHA yes i am a gym goer...and for hotness, well show me a picture and ill tell you if i think shes hot or not lol
There are a few hot older ladies at the gym id have to agree...but omg c'mon! gym is the worst place you can pull

Hello love, how you doing having a good work out, you wanna meet me in the jacuzzi afterwards for a massae lol

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miaow wrote:

HAHA yes i am a gym goer...and for hotness, well show me a picture and ill tell you if i think shes hot or not lol
There are a few hot older ladies at the gym id have to agree...but omg c'mon! gym is the worst place you can pull

Hello love, how you doing having a good work out, you wanna meet me in the jacuzzi afterwards for a massae lol

lol you got a point there!

Schmooove, very schmoooove

ill tell ya what for a older women being hot i think these three count the bill rather well...stunning

Zoe McLellan - http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0572721

Natalie Zea - http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0954036/

Jade Jagger

any day of the week, yes please!! lol

Hot Fix wrote:ill tell ya what for a older women being hot i think these three count the bill rather well...stunning

Zoe McLellan - http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0572721

Natalie Zea - http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0954036/

Jade Jagger

any day of the week, yes please!! lol

ooooo good choices!! (said in a totally non-lesbian way!!)

miaow wrote:

Hot Fix wrote:ill tell ya what for a older women being hot i think these three count the bill rather well...stunning

Zoe McLellan - http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0572721

Natalie Zea - http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0954036/

Jade Jagger

any day of the week, yes please!! lol

ooooo good choices!! (said in a totally non-lesbian way!!)

What can i say i have remarkable taste!